Bare One’s Soul

I sometimes ponder the random sequence of events in life.  It seems that when you are in the flow and open to opportunities, chance events occur with one thing leading to another.  This is exactly what happened when I signed up for financial planning workshops a few months ago.  I had no idea that I would be participating in a physical fitness assessment as a result of this.  Staying open to the flow makes life very interesting and brings an air of adventure as well.  This reminds me of one of my favourite storybook characters from childhood – Curious George, the ever inquisitive little monkey who mastered the art of adventure!

As I stood waiting for my fitness assessment to begin, I surveyed the many different types of apparatus surrounding me.  One in particular intrigued me, as I am sure it would have intrigued Curious George.  It looked like an elaborate bathroom scale with metal plates and retractable handles.  This machine was going to be my very first test.  I was asked to remove my shoes and socks and step onto the metal plates while taking hold of the handles.  I envisioned a surge of electrical energy channelling through my body as the machine was turned on and braced myself for it, but thankfully there was no sensation, not even the slightest buzz.  The only shock I felt was from stepping onto the cold metal plates with my bare soles.  The machine flashed a series of numbers revealing not only my weight, but also the percentages of my body fat and water, muscle and bone mass.  I took a deep breath as I stepped off of the scale, feeling like I had just completed my first test for the next mission in space.  T-minus 10 and counting.  I mentally prepared myself for the results.

You will be glad to know that I almost qualify for a launch into the stratosphere!  The scale alone did not reveal this but further tests involving my flexibility and endurance levels led to this conclusion.  As it turns out, I am in a healthy range for most everything except for my torso strength and arm flexibility.  This means I have to work on my abdominal and back muscles and that I cannot juggle bananas behind my back!  “Lucky George”, I think to myself.  Not only does he have limber limbs to juggle bananas and swing between trees, he also has a firm and fit torso.  There is no tree that I wish to train from at this time in my life but I think the inventors of monkey bars and jungle gyms had a brilliant idea when they created them for children.  Could it be that monkeys are the foremost scientist of our world?  I wonder what advice Curious George would give me for managing my finances.  Perhaps he would suggest that I make paper boats out of all of my bank statements and watch them float down a river!

A Good Belly Laugh

Humour is serious business.  No pun intended but I am sincere when I say this.  As I transition writing styles from serious to humorous, I am making a correlation between my writing and life.  Switching abruptly to comedic stories brings up one question for me:  At what point does humour enter a serious situation in life?  The answer came to me quickly as I recalled an article I came across while researching an essay for college a few years ago.  It was a story about nurses who worked in an operating room and assisted doctors with life-saving procedures.  The article revealed that the nurses had posted a sign outside their operating room door for anxiously awaiting family members.  It stated that if laughter was heard from behind the doors, it was not their loved one that they were laughing about but rather it was just their way of coping with their work-related stress.  I love the story as it clearly illustrates how humour has an important role in life and that it can be a very powerful coping tool.

Life is filled with challenges.  My 9o year old friend, who is as sharp as a tack, summed it all up perfectly for me one day.  She said, “you need to be insane to stay sane.”  This is so very true at times.  When the pressure is on, sometimes all we can do is laugh to maintain our sanity.  A little bit of humour goes a long way in helping to keep the stress under control, not unlike the regulator of a pressure cooker.  Humour is a form of emotional release that helps to maintain the pressure within at manageable levels.  Without this, we might explode or implode, depending on our habits and style of coping.  Exploding is downright messy and imploding is no better.  If we do the latter, we might very well end up on the operating room table with nurses laughing over top of us, so we might as well laugh while we can!

Healthy humour is inviting and never hurtful.  Numerous studies reveal the physical benefits of hearty laughter which include reduced stress, lower blood pressure, and a stronger immune system.  We all know that hearty laughter exercises the abdominal muscles and relaxes the body.  That means that a hearty bout of laughter is just about as good as going to the gym for a workout!  When was the last time you had a really good belly laugh?

“Humour is reason gone mad” – Groucho Marx


Embrace change

The first day of a new year brings visions of positive change for many people.  It is like turning over a brand new page in the calendar of life, with hopes of realizing unmet dreams and goals.  Perhaps you are saying to yourself: “This will be the year that I get into shape, start a new hobby, or go on my dream vacation.”  If anyone asks whether you have made any New Year’s resolutions, answer a resounding ‘Yes!’.  Say it with conviction as if there is no doubt that positive change will happen.  Change is good because change expands you.  It offers personal growth to help you realize your true potential.  If you resist change, you risk becoming stagnant in life.  Embrace change and you will be rewarded in ways you never before dreamed of!

One of my goals for 2012 is to find new ways to enjoy life.  As I start the New Year, I embrace change by transitioning to a lighter style of writing using narratives.  Previous posts were of a more formal nature, offering wisdom and insight in a philosophical way.  The goal was to create a foundation for readers to gain confidence in my level of expertise.  To further build my rapport, I am incorporating true stories told in a humorous way with hopes of bringing you laughter and greater personal connection.  I hope that my writing will be fun and engaging for you to read and that it will offer insight for creating more enjoyment.

Life is not meant to be serious – at least not all of the time.  Just as there is a place for seriousness, there is a place for light-hearted fun.  Humour can make all the difference between living your life and loving your life.  The trick is to weave joy into your rituals while alleviating the strain of responsibilities.  As I move towards storytelling, rest assured that the content of my blog will continue to have substance through life lessons.  These lessons may be hidden or apparent depending on how the stories unfold.  As always, I welcome your questions or comments and look forward to sharing good-hearted humour in 2012.  HAPPY New Year!

“At the height of laughter, the universe is flung into a kaleidoscope of new possibilities” –  Jean Houston

The magic of faith

Faith is the all-encompassing belief that everything will work out, regardless of the circumstances.  When difficulties arise, fear and doubt can get the better of us as we lapse into survival mode to maintain a sense of sanity for ourselves.  Faith counters the chaos in our lives and gives us the necessary courage to proceed with confidence and grace.  It provides inner peace during times of stress and turmoil.

How do we find faith in adversity?  How do we begin to trust the natural flow of life and appreciate even the most difficult moments?  The answer lies in virtues and the enduring belief that there is goodness in every moment of our lives.

Virtues are everywhere.  Techniques on how to find them were discussed in my previous blog post from November 28, entitled ‘Life is Sweet’.  Know that virtues are only a thought away and tied to your perceptions and beliefs.  Open your mind to the potential goodness in life and you have faith; faith that all is well and all will be well.  Acceptance and gratitude goes a long way in bringing more goodness to your life.

Faith is divine.  Faith breeds peace within and to the world around us.  As we bid farewell to 2011, have faith that the new year will bring positive rewards and personal fulfillment.  Believe that all is well in the natural evolution of things.  May peace be with you as you close this year and move into a new one with an open heart and hopeful mind.  I hope that wonder and curiosity captures you to reveal the magic of faith.

“Listen to your life.  See it for the fathomless mystery that it is.  In the boredom and pain of it, no less than in excitement and gladness; touch, taste, smell your way to the holy and hidden heart of it, because in the last analysis: all moments are key moments and life itself is grace.”    Frederick Buechner

Surrender

Surrendering can be gratifying.  Most people think of the word ‘surrender’ in terms of a battlefield where differences are resolved with one side victorious while the other side is defeated.  Contrast that with the notion of both sides winning through positive synergy.  When everyone wins, a compromise has been reached and the term surrender takes on a whole different meaning.  It becomes an act of humility as opposed to one of defeat.  Surrendering in this way involves walking the higher road and having compassion for all, including yourself.

The opposite of surrender is control.  What do we try to control in our life?  What can we control?  While some things can be more easily influenced than others, some are entirely out of our control.  This is the case with certain unknowns in life and uncompromising people or situations.  As hard as we try to evoke specific outcomes, our efforts may seem futile for the time and energy we invest.  In these situations, surrendering may be the best option while yielding to the natural flow of life.

Compassion and humility are your friends as you surrender to life’s flow.  Compassion for yourself and others can be found in virtues as discussed in my previous posts.  Humility can be achieved by letting go and allowing things or others to evolve in their own natural way.  What do you think will happen?  Will everything fall apart?  Many perceive the worst but this is seldom the case.  Life has its own natural rhythm and pace for everything and everyone.

Relinquishing control can be quite freeing although it may seem contrary at first.  To make it easier for yourself, adopt a lesson from Mother Nature and the cycles of plant life through changing seasons.  Notice the birth of new buds in springtime,  flourishing growth in summer, and gradual decline in autumn through winter.   To everything and everyone, there is a season; a time for emerging growth, a time for action, and a time for rest.  Yielding to the natural flow of life holds great lessons for each of us.  Have faith in this flow and free yourself to experience the emerging goodness, like that of a setting sun which glows ever more brilliant with each passing moment.